Mother of the Bride · Formal · about 2.5 minutes · 326 words
Mother of the Bride Welcome Speech (Formal, 2.5 Minutes)
The hosting mother opens the reception for her daughter and her daughter's wife: thanks the guests and staff, welcomes the other family, and shares one memory
Given by Wendeline, the mother of the bride, for Aurelie and Keturah. The names are made up.
The speech
Ladies and gentlemen, good evening, and welcome. I'm Wendeline, Aurelie's mother. On behalf of my husband Corin and myself, thank you for joining us tonight to celebrate Aurelie and Keturah.
A few thanks are in order. To those of you who traveled, from Portland, from Atlanta, and in the case of Keturah's aunt, from Lagos by way of two airports and very little sleep, we are grateful. To the staff here at the Harbor Club, who have answered every one of my emails with great patience, thank you. And to Ronan and Una, Keturah's parents: from the first dinner at your table, you treated our daughter as one of your own. We are honored to welcome you, and all of your family, to ours tonight.
I will share one memory.
When Aurelie was ten, she played in a spring piano recital in the basement hall of the Methodist church on Elm. Halfway through her piece, a minuet she had practiced every evening for two months, she lost her place. The room went very quiet. Aurelie took her hands off the keys, turned to the audience, and said, "I'm going to start again." Then she did, starting from the first note, at the same tempo, all the way to the end.
I have watched her do that ever since. A move across the country, a job that ended, a hard year. She stops, she says so out loud, and she begins again without apology.
Keturah, the first Christmas you spent with us, Aurelie sat down at our piano for the first time in years. She was nervous and she said so. You pulled a chair up beside the bench and turned the pages for her, and when she stumbled, you said nothing at all. You simply waited for her to find her place. I have not forgotten it.
Now, would you please rise and raise your glasses. To Aurelie and Keturah, and to whoever turns the pages.
Why it works: The thanks are specific and finished in one paragraph. A ten-year-old restarting her piano piece says more than a list of virtues, and the bride's wife is welcomed for a quiet thing the mother saw her do at the same piano.
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