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Wedding vows · the writer

Write your vows from your own stories.

Tell us how it started, one thing your partner does that nobody else sees, and what you want to promise. You get a first draft with the shape good vows have, built from your answers and nothing else.

One moment, told with its detail. Where you were, what they did or said. This is where the vows begin.

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A habit, a kindness, a ritual. Small is better.

As many as you like, in any order, big or small. Everyday ones land hardest.

4.How should it feel?
5.How long?

If your partner is writing vows too, it helps to agree on a rough length.

Optional. A topic, a person, a story that should stay between you.

Nothing invented

Where the vows need a detail you didn’t give, you get a blank to fill, never a made-up memory.

Private

Your answers and the draft are kept for seven days on an unlisted link, then deleted.

Have a draft already?

Skip this and check it, or read the example vows.