Grandparent · Heartfelt · about 2.5 minutes · 351 words
Wedding Toast From a Grandfather (Heartfelt, 2.5 Minutes)
A grandfather married fifty-six years, whose wife died two winters ago, toasts his granddaughter with a house rule the couple kept and what he saw the groom do
Given by Aldous, the bride's grandfather, for Juno and Elio. The names are made up.
The speech
Evening, everyone. I'm Aldous, Juno's grandfather. I was married to her grandmother Fiadh for fifty-six years. She died two winters ago, and she would have loved tonight, mostly because she'd have been right about the flowers.
Fiadh and I had one rule in our house, and we kept it the whole time. Whoever got up first made the coffee. It didn't matter who was tired or who was annoyed with whom. You made two cups, you carried one upstairs, and you set it down on the other person's side of the bed. Some mornings that cup was the only kind thing either of us managed to say.
When Juno was eight she stayed with us over Easter. I came downstairs at six and found her in the kitchen on a step stool with the percolator going. She'd heard us talking about the rule and decided she was up first. She had used, I'd estimate, half the can. It was the strongest coffee ever made in that house. Fiadh and I drank every drop, sitting at the table in our robes, while Juno watched to make sure we finished. Fiadh told her it was perfect. I'm not sure I've slept since.
Elio, last October you two came out to see me. I'm up early these days, old habit, but on the Sunday I came down at half past five and you were already at the stove. You made two cups. You took one up to Juno with the cream already in, the way she likes it, and then you made a third and brought it to me. You didn't know about the rule. No one had told you. I sat with that cup a long time.
I've been on my own for a while now. What I miss most is small. The cup on my side of the bed.
Juno, you've found someone who gets up first. Fiadh would have liked him. She'd have told him his coffee was perfect, too.
So would you all stand with me and raise a glass. To Juno and Elio. Whoever's up first makes the coffee.
Why it works: The late grandmother is present in the story instead of in a moment of silence, so the grief stays gentle. One house rule ties together the marriage, the granddaughter and the groom, and becomes the toast.
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